Add RemindersChanged SSE event so the pending-reminders list in the
SYST3M tab updates live without polling.
Backend emission sites (every path that mutates the reminders table):
- agent_server: store_remind (remind MCP call)
- dashboard.rs: post_cancel_reminder, post_retry_reminder
- questions.rs: cancel_loose_end Reminder kind
- reminder_scheduler: after each delivery batch (any_delivered)
Coordinator gets emit_reminders_snapshot() mirroring the existing
emit_schedules_snapshot() pattern: lists PendingReminder rows from the
broker and emits DashboardEvent::RemindersChanged.
Frontend: applyRemindersChanged(ev) calls renderReminders(ev.reminders)
and is registered as reminders_changed in MUTATION_HANDLERS.
Docs: dashboard.md reminders_changed entry; CLAUDE.md file map updated.