Make self-signed TLS the gateway's default whenever no external TLS source
is configured, and deprecate the explicit selfSignedTls toggle. Self-signed
is now derived as `tls.certDir == null && !tls.acme.enable`, so an operator
selects a TLS mode by setting tls.certDir or tls.acme — or neither, for the
self-signed default. There is no http-only mode: matrix discovery hardcodes
https, so the gateway always terminates TLS.
The selfSignedTls option is kept as a deprecated no-op (warns when set to
false) so existing configs still eval. The two selfSignedTls mutual-
exclusion assertions and the HSTS-requires-TLS assertion are dropped — they
are impossible or vacuous now that self-signed is the floor. The hive-tls
module and the forge ROOT_URL scheme consume the derived value: the gateway
always terminates TLS, so behind the gateway the forge is always advertised
over https.
Updates docs/gateway.md (TLS-modes table, self-signed section, the removed
http-only section, firewall + discovery notes). Eval-proven: default →
self-signed (hive CA active, https ROOT_URL); tls.certDir → CA inactive;
selfSignedTls=false → deprecation warning fires.