phase 6: container events + drop the 5s /api/state poll

new DashboardEvent::ContainerStateChanged + ContainerRemoved
close the last refetch loop on the dashboard. Coordinator's
rescan_containers_and_emit diffs a fresh container_view::build_all
against a cached last_containers map and fires per-row events.
called from actions::approve (post-spawn), actions::destroy,
the lifecycle_action wrapper, auto_update::rebuild_agent, and
the existing 10s crash_watch poll.

ContainerView extracted to its own module so coordinator and
dashboard can both build it. dashboard endpoints flip to 200;
container-lifecycle forms carry data-no-refresh. client drops
the periodic poll entirely — initial cold load + SSE for
everything afterwards. pending overlay reads from the existing
transientsState since the new event payload doesn't carry it.

PURG3 + meta-update keep the post-submit refetch since
tombstones + meta_inputs aren't event-derived yet; tracked in
TODO.md.

hive-c0re/src/main.rs

@@ -11,6 +11,7 @@ mod approvals;
 mod auto_update;
 mod broker;
 mod client;
+mod container_view;
 mod coordinator;
 mod crash_watch;
 mod dashboard;