feat(hivectl): queue-routed lifecycle verbs with wait + DAG progress

every agent lifecycle verb on the admin socket (rebuild / restart /
restart-all / kill / stop / start) now submits job-queue DAGs and
returns their ids; hivectl polls the new HostRequest::QueueDag and
prints a live node-chain progress line per DAG (fan-out children
included), exiting non-zero on failure — --no-wait opts out. DagView
and the queue wire enums move to hive_sh4re::jobs (wire types live in
the shared crate); the last fused rebuild path (lifecycle::rebuild)
is gone. tracker: #2166

hive-c0re/src/job_queue/mod.rs

@@ -169,7 +169,10 @@ impl JobQueue {
                 && d.parent_id == spec.parent_id
                 && d.approval_id == spec.approval_id
                 && (d.template != Template::MetaUpdate || d.inputs == spec.inputs)
-                && PermPayload::same_type(d.perm_payload.as_ref(), spec.perm_payload.as_ref())
+                && model::perm_payload_same_type(
+                    d.perm_payload.as_ref(),
+                    spec.perm_payload.as_ref(),
+                )
         })
     }