swarm-controller: make authelia's operators matrix homeserver admins

swarm-authelia-bridge gains ListOperators, the usernames in authelia's
operator group (`operatorGroup = "admins"`, passed in from
swarm-authelia.nix). Unlike the two agent verbs, which admit any active
token, it answers only the client named by
SWARM_AUTHELIA_BRIDGE_OPERATOR_READER_CLIENT_ID (swarm-controller's
queueClientId) and returns 403 to every other active token: authelia
issues machine tokens to every hive and its agents as well. The bridge's
introspection now models `client_id` to make that check, the same way
swarm-nats-auth's does.

swarm-controller runs a grant-only pass at start and every five minutes:
read the group, map each username to the account an SSO login lands on
(tuwunel lowercases `preferred_username`), skip anyone already joined to
`#admins:<server>` (tuwunel's definition of admin) or without a matrix
account, and send `!admin users make-user-admin <user>` there as @swarm
with the swarm appservice token. Nothing is ever revoked: tuwunel has no
command for it (#4799).

The admin-room calls (alias, joined members, profile, send) go into
swarm-matrix-client next to whoami, keeping its no-body-in-errors rule.

Closes #4585

README.md

@@ -187,7 +187,8 @@ newer channel breaks in ways hyperhive's CI doesn't catch.
 
 You are an SSO user too: `swarmctl user add <you> --group admins`, and a
 first login through authelia creates your forge and matrix accounts;
-`swarmctl forge make-admin <you>` promotes the forge one.
+`swarmctl forge make-admin <you>` promotes the forge one, and the matrix
+one becomes a homeserver admin within five minutes of that first login.
 
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