feat(hive-c0re): replace rebuild queue with generic job-DAG queue

jobs are now DAGs of primitive nodes (prebuild, stop-for-update, swap,
reconcile, signal, drain, ...) driven by one scheduler with N build
slots + per-agent lifecycle leases. per-agent power intent (wanted
up/offline) is durable in agent_power.sqlite; Reconcile nodes converge
observed state to it. kills the graceful-stop watcher thread, the
deferred-start follow-up, and the cascade pre-enqueue (fan-out on
MetaLock completion instead). tracker: #2166

Cargo.lock

@@ -1029,6 +1029,12 @@ version = "0.1.9"
 source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
 checksum = "5baebc0774151f905a1a2cc41989300b1e6fbb29aff0ceffa1064fdd3088d582"
 
+[[package]]
+name = "fixedbitset"
+version = "0.5.7"
+source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
+checksum = "1d674e81391d1e1ab681a28d99df07927c6d4aa5b027d7da16ba32d1d21ecd99"
+
 [[package]]
 name = "flate2"
 version = "1.1.9"
@@ -1381,6 +1387,7 @@ dependencies = [
  "hive-sh4re",
  "libc",
  "listenfd",
+ "petgraph",
  "problem_details",
  "reqwest",
  "rusqlite",
@@ -2554,6 +2561,17 @@ version = "2.3.2"
 source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
 checksum = "9b4f627cb1b25917193a259e49bdad08f671f8d9708acfd5fe0a8c1455d87220"
 
+[[package]]
+name = "petgraph"
+version = "0.8.3"
+source = "registry+https://github.com/rust-lang/crates.io-index"
+checksum = "8701b58ea97060d5e5b155d383a69952a60943f0e6dfe30b04c287beb0b27455"
+dependencies = [
+ "fixedbitset",
+ "hashbrown 0.15.5",
+ "indexmap",
+]
+
 [[package]]
 name = "phf"
 version = "0.11.3"