deploy: move the SSO provider toggle

The largest of these moves: sixteen references spelled through `let`
aliases across eight modules, plus eight more spelled as a path, plus
five documentation pages.

authelia is also the clearest case for why the two namespaces exist.
`swarm.authelia.url` is needed by *every* hive in the swarm — it says
where to send a browser to authenticate — while running the container is
the business of exactly one host. The client half and the server half
were sharing a namespace whose whole contract is "identical everywhere",
and only one of them could honour it.

`swarm.authelia.oidc.clients` stays where it is for the same reason:
several modules register a client there, gated on authelia running here,
and the registry itself is what the service *is* rather than a decision
about this machine.

One sweep note worth recording: a grep for `swarm.authelia.enable` misses
`swarmCfg.authelia.enable`, because the prefix is whatever the reading
file bound. Grepping the suffix `.authelia.enable` finds both, and found
a reference in swarm.nix that the path-shaped pattern did not.

nix/host-modules/swarm-grafana.nix

@@ -77,7 +77,7 @@ let
   # The all-local case: this host runs BOTH Grafana and the swarm's authelia,
   # so the minted secret can be moved without an operator. Same split the
   # forge and matrix modules document.
-  ssoLocal = deployCfg.grafana && autheliaCfg.enable;
+  ssoLocal = deployCfg.grafana && deployCfg.authelia;
   autheliaUrl = toString autheliaCfg.url;
 
   # Where the plaintext lands inside the container. Under /var/lib rather